Marriage

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Kind of busy lately. Still busy but I'm trying my best to write something. Last weekend was my brother's engagement. Alhamdulillah everything went as planned. And my brother's fiance is from Pahang. We took nearly 15 hours to get there. Insyallah the wedding will be in November.  :)

I'm not intend to write about my brother's wedding to be. But I would like to write about marriage in general. In many views. I'm getting 24 this year and a lot of my friends are getting engaged and some of them were married. Lucky for them. 

So, when we talk about marriage what will come across our mind? For me the first thing I will think is, is he the right person for me.? Is he really meant to me. ?Am I gonna find someone better than him.? Will he treat me better afterwards.? Am I gonna live happily after marriage?

Yes! It kind of fussy. Because sometimes we didn't know is he really the right person for us or it just the feeling. I really respect for those who really can make decision to get married. Because for me, it is not as simple like choosing your favorite chocolates. 

You are choosing a husband. Choosing your imam. Choosing your leader in this entire life. So, I think it is not wrong if you take so much time to make consideration before you stick with your final decision. My cousin used to say to me : "Kita ni perempuan. Kalau kita kawen, kita nak untuk selama-lamanya. Bukan kawen then berapa tahun bercerai. Perempuan and lelaki berbeza. Kalau perempuan bercerai, kita takkan dipanggil anak dara. Status kita terus berubah. So kita kena pikir betul-betul".

Everyone in this entire world want their marriage to be forever until they die, but Allah knows what is better for us. So, choose wisely, and do solat hajat and istikharah. Hopefully he's the one for you.

" Di dalam konteks Islam, sekiranya kita diuji dengan ujian hidup, kita mempunyai pilihan sama ada nafsu atau iman. Jika kita membiarkan nafsu menguasai diri dan perasaan tidak sabar, maka kalahlah iman. Jika kita memilih iman, maka akan kalahlah nafsu. Sebetulnya, diri kitalah yang harus memilih pilihan yang tersedia ada supaya kita mendapat manfaat yang tinggi"

It's you who create your own destiny.

Assalamualaikum w.b.t.

So, macam dah lama gila tak update blog tapi hari ni rasa nak update sebab ada benda nak tulis. Hahha..tapi hari ni aku nak tulis pasal nak kurus even aku tak da la gemuk mana pun.

Macam yang kita semua sedia maklum, ada banyak sangat cara untuk kurus. Diet, bersenam and yang paling senang amik produk untuk kurus. So hari ni aku nak cita pasal produk untuk kurus. And aku pasti ramai yang tahu apa produk yang paling popular sekarang. Tapi aku tak nak la tulis nama produk tuh kat sini. And tujuan aku tulis entry ni bukan la nak jatuhkan or apa-apa. It's just my opinion.

Apa yang aku tau pasal produk ni, ianya bukanlah ubat so it's very good compare to other product seperti pil or ubat. Malah benda ni adalah macam makanan tambahan untuk ganti makanan kita. Okay maybe aku terang ni tak jelas, and ini apa ja yang aku tau based on my reading and tanya orang-orang lain. And for me, produk ni sangat bagus. Seriously. Sebab mostly kawan-kawan aku yang ambik semuanya turun.

So, adakah aku nak promote produk tuh sebenarnya. Tak da la nak promote, tapi mmg kalau ada kawan-kawan or sedara yang nak kurus aku mmg promote produk tuh kepada diorang. Seriously! Even ada sorang kawan aku ambik produk tuh sebab aku promote. Sebab for me, benda bagus tak salah nak bagitau kat orang.

Tapi, as you all know la kan. Nak kurus bukan la senang, even kau amik produk tuh kau still kena displin. Bila kawan aku ambik produk tuh, 1st benda aku cakap kat dia, jangan bergantung pada produk tuh even produk tuh bukan ubat. Sebab produk tuh mahal and tak semua mampu nak beli. Apa yang aku cakap, jaga pemakanan so kau tak akan depen fully pada produk tuh.

Sebab apa aku cakap macam tuh even aku cakap benda tuh bagus? Sebab bagi aku la, kalau aku nak kurus, aku maybe ambik produk tu tapi aku tak nak la ambik selama-lamanya. Aku just nak guna produk tu, untuk tolong aku kurus, so once aku stop, aku tak da la kena bergantung pada produk tuh. Sebab aku ada sorang kawan ambik produk tuh tapi time dia amik, and dia mmg displin. time makan dia makan, time tak boleh makan mmg dia xmakan. tapi bila waktu makan, cara hidangan permakanan dia, I mean pengambilan karbohidrat, protein and everything else still sama. Still banyak kalori. And kadang malam pun makan lagi, but with the help of the product lepas makan boleh bakar kalori using the product.

So what the point? Kau nak kurus, but cara makan still sama. And that's mean you just depend on the product untuk kurus and once you berenti macam mana? And ada kawan yang mmg kurus time ambik produk tuh, tapi once dia stop, berat dia naik. Sebab apa? Sebab pengambilan makanan dia masih sama. Tak ada perubahan. Dia just depend on the product untuk kurus. And bersenam lagi tak la kan.

So, aku mmg kalau ada kawan aku yang nak amik, mmg aku suggest suruh ambik, tapi don't depend too much on the product. You have to work out and control your eating. Once you stop the product, you can still maintain your weight. Bukan ka itu lebih bagus daripada bergantung pada sesuatu produk.

Paling aku kagum my cousin. Seriously dia mmg gemuk. But dia xda amik produk apa2 pun but dia bersenam, and jaga pemakanan. Which is very good. And sekarang dia mmg dah kurus gila2. And the part yang paling best, dia still makan nasi, makan kuih and other stuff but dia control and every day dia bersenam.  So, which one is better? Both are better tapi semuanya depend on yourself how you want it to be.

Lin Handmade Greetings Card April 2012 Blog Giveaway

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Okay this is my first time entering this giveaway and I really want to win this because the prize is awesome and I really want it! InsyaAllah. So, I have been following this blog for several months and this blog has brought me into this quilling obsession. Thank you. So, the owner of this blog have organized one give away. And the prizes will be the quilling frame!

Awesome right? I hope I will win this.. Aminn....

Another quilling project.

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Yesterday I made another card and gave it to my twin's friend whose also my friend eventually. Luckily she like the card that I gave. And before that I posted the photo of the card in the Facebook and guess what. My former English teacher during my high school commented on the photo. She asked me either she can order it from me. As you all know, I'm just an amateur in this field. There were many people outside there who are really good in this field. 

So I told my teacher, that I'm not really good in it but what she replied, she just want something different and don't care either I'm an amateur or not. Oh! So, she order 10 of it and I think this is the start of my business. But I'm not confirm with her yet what kind of design that she want. I hope she just choose the design that I made on the photo that I posted in the Facebook.  :)

It is not hard to make this card since I'm just using a simple technique, but it needs time..I hope I can do it..  :)

Until we meet next time. Wish me luck. Assalamualaikum  :)

I miss doing quilling

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Alhamdulillah I have time to update this blog even though I'm quite busy right now. I thought being a research student will be more easy and have a free time but it turns out on the other way. I was super busy. I have to read journals, make a summary of every single journal I have read and the most important thing is to understand the journals since I have to explain it back to my supervisor every time I see her. But this week my appointment was cancelled. It supposed to be today, but since my supervisor have an important thing to do so, we postponed it to next Wednesday.

Since I'm quite busy with my master, I don't have time to do quilling. I feel very sad, because I love doing it and how much I miss doing it. I also have bought a proper quilling tool from online store and InsyaAllah it will a arrive soon. But the problem now is, I don't have time to do it. I have to find a suitable time but it kind of hard, since I don't really good in manage my time.

But before I came here in Shah Alam I have made a lots of quilling and some of them I have gave away to my friends. But last week, I decided to make a card. And now I'm interested on doing the card. I have made two and both of the card I gave it to my friends  :)

This was the first card I made after I'm going to Shah Alam. Before this I thought it is impossible for me to make this card but it is not as difficult as I think instead it is quite easy. And as usual, youtube is the best teacher that you can get. I gave this card to my roommate  :) 

These was the quilling that I have made when I was still in Perlis. It quite a lots but most of them were given away. But mostly I gave it to my friends. And they love it! Gonna do it some other time and gave it to more friends! :)

And last weekend,my friend was also a housemate of mine during degree came to Shah Alam. I was so happy since I don't have any activity on weekend. At first she came just to get some stuff from but then we decided to go out. Even though we just went to PKNS,SACC and PAS but I was happy to go out with her. We bought cupcakes and ate it at Taman Tasik Shah Alam. :)  The cupcakes was so delicious, and I think I will grab some of  it another time  :)  

Until we meet next time. Assalamualaikum  :)

Update!

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

How are you.? I hope all of you were fine. Same to me, so far I'm still good. So far it has been a month for me being a master student. So, maybe some of you curios how's master student's life. So, today I would like to tell you how was my life for the past month.

For those who didn't know, I'm taking a master in Electrical Engineering continuing my degree in power system. I also have been sponsored by UiTM. Allhamdulillah. I'm taking fully research which means I don't have to attend any classes. It sound easy right, but it is not as easy as it see.

Yes, I really don't have to attend any classes since I just have to read journals. And reading journals don't need you to attend any classes. All depends on you, how and where do you want to read it. For me, sometimes I go to library and sometimes I just stayed at home. But being a research student, the most important thing is to be independent. Yes, you have to be independent with yourself.

You have to know how to manage your time. For me it quite hard since I don't really good in manage my time especially getting up in the morning. Since I don't have class, so it is up to me when I want to get up and when I'm gonna go to sleep. This was quite challenging. Sometimes I went to library in order to manage my time well, but it is all about your self. How you want to manage your time.

And when being a research student, the other important thing, you have to read, read, read and read. Yes! The only thing you have to do is read. It is my biggest weakness since I don't like reading. That's why I'm taking engineering because I want to run away from reading. But now, I have to faces it.  :( Why you have to read? Because when you read others journals then you know what other had done and what their weaknesses. And from that you can fill the gap and make a research to fill the gap. That is the point of doing research. Filling the gap or doing something new that can contribute something to the society.

How many you have to read? Depend! The more you read, the more you understand and you will be more confident with your research when you want to defend your research. But reading journals are not like reading novel. Sometimes a journal with 4 pages takes a day to finish and understand what the author did. The worst situation is when you have to read repetitively in order to understand the content of the journals.

And the other part that important is meeting with supervisor. The more you meet your supervisor the more easy your job will be. You need to have a good supervisor. Supervisor will guide you. If you have a good supervisor InsyaAllah your research will be guided, if not, it is all depend on you. Allhamdulillah, so far I have a very good supervisor. She guided me well. Alhamdulillah.

So, that was my life for this past month. I hope Allah will always grant ease in everything I do. InsyaAllah. And Alhamdulillah, there were good news from my friends. A lot of my friends were getting a job. Alhamdulillah.. I hope they can perform well in their job. InsyaAllah. 

Until we meet next time..Assalamualaikum  :)

I'm a master student!

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Alhamdulillah, on 25/2/2011 I'm officially a master student. Sorry for been a while with this blog. Kind of busy with journals and other stuffs. Hopefully I'm gonna do well this time.  InsyaAllah, will be updated soon.  :)