Perkahwinan

Salam

Suddenly, i want to write something about marriage. I don't think it is a problem even though i'm only 22. Before I start, it is better for us to know, the meaning of marriage in view of Islam.

Perkahwinan ialah ijab dan qabul (‘aqad) yang menghalalkan persetubuhan antara lelaki dan perempuan yang diucapkan oleh kata-kata yang menunjukkan nikah, menurut peraturan yang ditentukan oleh Islam

So, that's the meaning of marriage. Why I want to write about this matter by the way? Someone propose me. Is it true??? It is hard to say, but maybe it is true. hahahaha..

As a human being it is something natural to get married. But the question is, are we ready for that.??And can we give a full commitment into this matter.?I know, some of us get married because they have fall in love with someone, and that's why they want to get married.

But, in my point of view, love is insufficient for someone to make a decision to get married. Marriage is the thing that we must think deeply, especially for us, women..We cannot just think like,today we make a decision, than tomorrow we get married. It can't be like that.

I ever had a conversation with my cousin, during her sister's weeding. She had said something that i will think deeply about marriage. Ans she is a year younger than me.

"Kita ni perempuan kalau nak kawen kena pikir betul-betul. Sebabnya, sebelum kawen orang akan panggil kita anak dara, bila dah kawen status tuh terus tukar kepada isteri orang. Kalau kita bercerai, kita tak dapat dah status anak dara tuh, tapi kita akan dapat status janda tak pun kalau laki kita meninggal, kita akan dipanggil balu."

Okay, it is not actually about status only, but many things. We get married not just for one day, all of us want to get married and be together for the rest of their life. So, it is really important to be fully confident, before we make any decision on getting married. Islam also teach us how to find a good wife and husband.

So, I hope things will clear with my explanation. I know, someone maybe will read this entry, and i'm sorry if he not comfortable with my explanation. Jodoh itu ditangan Allah, and suatu hari kita pasti akan ditemukan dengan jodoh kita. Yakinlah dengan janji Allah itu.

Wasalam

p/s: friends, tomorrow is my first paper. Wish me luck!!!

Raya + Wedding = kelam kabut

Salam

Just arrived Kangar yesterday, and i was very tired. I had a flu and sore throat, and i don't how long it takes for me to recover. It's really painful. Today, together with my friend plan to go to En. Wahab house. He's our former coach during kadet polis.

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I know, everyone now is uploading their raya picture in the facebook. sampai aku dah tak larat nak tengok. But for me, there's no raya's picture. I'm too busy during this raya. Went to Perak, Selangor, than back to Kedah was very tiring. I never had experienced visiting my relatives in such a compact time. One day we had visit three place, can u imagine how tired it could be??

Then back to Kedah, which is in 3rd of Syawal, there's my cousin's weeding. She got married with someone from Terengganu. Sorry to say, but i'm not very comfortable with her husband. Don't ask me why.

The 3rd of Syawal is her 'akad nikah' and it was held in Masjid Baling. She wore a white dress since it's 'akad nikah'. And his father akadkan sendiri. And it was held three times, maybe he's nervous..hahahhaa... i don't know, since i'm not allowed to enter the mosque.

After the akad nikah, we went home. There're some photography session taken by my twin. After had some meal pihak lelaki, went to their homestay. Then at the next day was a 'kenduri'. My pakcik didn't use catering but he cooked by himself together with all the villagers. It quite messy, luckily everything went as planned.

Then after 4 pm, we had to clean up all the stuff during the kenduri and it takes until maghrib to finished all the stuff. I've some picture taken by my twin during this kenduri and akad nikah. So, enjoy!!

For more picture visit : http://pleasedtobehonourable.blogspot.com

Wasalam

Syawal

Salam

Okay, i know. It's 3rd of Syawal already. But i still want to wish all the muslims out there 'Salam Aidilfitri'..So, how's your raya. ?for me, it's a very unforgettable raya i ever had. Now i'm still in my kampung (Baling,kedah).

We, had visit most of our relative during this raya. 1st of Syawal we went to Baling, Kedah. After raya's prayer, then we all off to Gerik. All of our family gathered there and it was happening. Then,after that we off to Tapah. It's my father's kampung. We arrived there around 10 p.m.

My cousin who married last year, his wife has safely delivered a baby boy named Mohd. Fitri Aziz. Then after had some meal then we off to Bidor. It's my maklang house. It is near to Tapah. There, all my father's relative gathered. It has been a long time we didn't go back to Tapah. For sure, too many stories want to talk about.

2nd of syawal, we went to banting, visiting my pak su. around 4-5 pm we arrived there. Even paksu is sick, he's still do his best. i really hope paksu will be recover. aminn..

Then after 6 pm we went back to Baling, Kedah. Today is my cousin's weeding. The 'akad nikah' will be held after isyak prayer. Then the kenduri will be on 4th of Syawal. We are now really busy with all the preparation since they're not using catering. I've to steal some times to write this entry.

Okay, i think i stop here since there're many works to do. I'll update soon. Sorry there's no picture during this raya. To busy to take even a single of picture. hahaha..

Salam aidilfitri.

Wasalam.