Lin Handmade May 2012 Blog Giveaway

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Yeah! Kak Lin is giving another giveaway this month. I do participated on last month giveaway, but there was no luck for me. So, I think it is not kind of late for me to participate in this blog giveaway. And I hope I can  win this month. :)

Stranger

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So, how was your day. For me, a lot of things happen lately. I met my former English teacher on Thursday and gave her the quilling order... Alhamdulillah she like it so much. I was kind of worried she will not like the outcome. But I think I just think it too much  :)

And yes I look so chubby in that picture plus the bad scarf day.. Well, not everything going perfect right.

And on Friday I had an appointment with my twin. She reviewed me, since I'm complaining about my right upper tooth. Well, after one another, now, I have to undergo RCT (Root Canal Treatment). And for your information, I just got a bridge about a month ago and now RCT. Yes it is so frustrating. It kind of sad because I have done everything that have been told. I floss my teeth with 2 types of floss everyday, brush it twice a day and even using mouth wash. It is a very good oral hygiene you know.  I 'm not giving compliment to myself but, if I compare it  to other people, yes I would say, I have a very good oral hygiene. But it's all was Allah planned. Not all we plan will come out good right. 

And then on the evening I went to PKNS to send a letter. After that,I just hanging around, and suddenly someone approached me and greet me. He asked me either I'm a lecturer. But then I replied, I'm a student. He then asked me what i'm studying and for about 5 minutes,then he asked me either i'm free at that time and ask me to join him for a drink.

And I don't know what I was thinking at that time, I just say yes and followed him for drink. At that time I didn't feel any suspicious but then during the drink he asked me for my number. And, yes I gave him my number. An then he missed call me and guess what, it was a private number. And at that time I just started feeling something is wrong. And at that time, I just realized what have I done. I just want to ran away that time when I remember about my friend's experience which also exactly like me.

I started giving excuses when he invite me for breakfast on the next day. But he insist to have breakfast with me and asked me to join him on Sunday. But, I just said to him, I'm not intend to meet him again. At that time, I just don't want to be there. It kind of scary even though we were in public place. After that I said to him I'm gonna hanging around and have to go, I thought he will not ask anything at that time, but then he asked could he join me. And straight away I replied to him, "No!". I just leave him.

So, friends. The moral of the story don't ever trust people. Even though he/she claimed to be an educated person. Because not all educated person are nice. I still remember when he said, I will not be a good lecturer since I'm thinking negatively. For me, yes, I have to think negatively in that situation. Even though he claimed he is a lecturer but what can proof that.So girls, when you want to go out, go out with your friends, but  if you still need to go out alone, please be careful and don't ever talk to a stranger.

Quilled 'F' monogram

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After 4 days, at last I manage to complete this A3 monogram ordered by my teacher..I made this monogram on A3 mounting board requested by my teacher.. Alhamdulillah, my teacher like it so much..

This is the final result.

Progress!

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At last!

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Alhamdulillah. I took nearly one and a half month to complete all the 10 order from my teacher.

Marriage

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Kind of busy lately. Still busy but I'm trying my best to write something. Last weekend was my brother's engagement. Alhamdulillah everything went as planned. And my brother's fiance is from Pahang. We took nearly 15 hours to get there. Insyallah the wedding will be in November.  :)

I'm not intend to write about my brother's wedding to be. But I would like to write about marriage in general. In many views. I'm getting 24 this year and a lot of my friends are getting engaged and some of them were married. Lucky for them. 

So, when we talk about marriage what will come across our mind? For me the first thing I will think is, is he the right person for me.? Is he really meant to me. ?Am I gonna find someone better than him.? Will he treat me better afterwards.? Am I gonna live happily after marriage?

Yes! It kind of fussy. Because sometimes we didn't know is he really the right person for us or it just the feeling. I really respect for those who really can make decision to get married. Because for me, it is not as simple like choosing your favorite chocolates. 

You are choosing a husband. Choosing your imam. Choosing your leader in this entire life. So, I think it is not wrong if you take so much time to make consideration before you stick with your final decision. My cousin used to say to me : "Kita ni perempuan. Kalau kita kawen, kita nak untuk selama-lamanya. Bukan kawen then berapa tahun bercerai. Perempuan and lelaki berbeza. Kalau perempuan bercerai, kita takkan dipanggil anak dara. Status kita terus berubah. So kita kena pikir betul-betul".

Everyone in this entire world want their marriage to be forever until they die, but Allah knows what is better for us. So, choose wisely, and do solat hajat and istikharah. Hopefully he's the one for you.

" Di dalam konteks Islam, sekiranya kita diuji dengan ujian hidup, kita mempunyai pilihan sama ada nafsu atau iman. Jika kita membiarkan nafsu menguasai diri dan perasaan tidak sabar, maka kalahlah iman. Jika kita memilih iman, maka akan kalahlah nafsu. Sebetulnya, diri kitalah yang harus memilih pilihan yang tersedia ada supaya kita mendapat manfaat yang tinggi"